tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678671341796735502.post3072060615854423698..comments2023-11-02T02:40:04.373-07:00Comments on Wild (North) West Litigator: Guilty Mom SyndromeCPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09049860284871030328noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678671341796735502.post-27194035398196726262009-01-21T10:02:00.000-08:002009-01-21T10:02:00.000-08:00there is not such thing as spoiling a baby under 6...there is not such thing as spoiling a baby under 6 months old. do what you feel.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678671341796735502.post-2854614291739920422009-01-20T16:47:00.000-08:002009-01-20T16:47:00.000-08:00Dude - welcome to the mommy guilt club! Grab a dri...Dude - welcome to the mommy guilt club! Grab a drink and pull up a chair ... you'll be here for the REST OF YOUR LIFE! <BR/><BR/>*snort*<BR/><BR/>That being said, my son has had to spend tons of time with his grandma lately because I'm studying for the bar. And it's awful because she adores him, but he doesn't really like her! He HATES it when I leave him down there with her. He clings to my legs in desperation and has to be pulled off by brute force. It sucks ass.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, my kid has tons of toys AND tons of cuddle time. WTF. They're only babies once.KGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10236206776336550381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678671341796735502.post-62440148595094844402009-01-20T06:56:00.000-08:002009-01-20T06:56:00.000-08:00I completely echo Leo's sentiments but Butterflyfi...I completely echo Leo's sentiments but Butterflyfish is speaking the truth. Who posted about the niece with the pulling-off-the-arm-hair nightly ritual? I doted too much, because of the mommy guilt and because of MY neediness. I need to hug her and kiss her and enjoy my time with her because we have so little of it. It is what it is. BUT, fastforward seven years, and we are only just now starting to get her to accept the fact that I will not sit in there for half an hour as she tries to fall asleep. My husband does not have this problem. He has never been a softie about bedtime, and when he's the only one home at bedtime, guess what? She goes right to sleep without him staying with her. Or so he says. She sometimes tells me she's sad. There's no winning. It is what it is. Hug that baby, girl! Bottle that baby smell and send me some!!!gudnuffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09404362959136843111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678671341796735502.post-74039254874862833832009-01-20T02:33:00.000-08:002009-01-20T02:33:00.000-08:00Judgment free zone. Sleep rocking is not the same...Judgment free zone. Sleep rocking is not the same as toy giving.<BR/><BR/>*But*<BR/><BR/>night time rituals are notoriously hard to change once established. Just sayinButterflyfishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10107438909973957940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1678671341796735502.post-62498255350578736782009-01-19T21:27:00.000-08:002009-01-19T21:27:00.000-08:00This is the best kind of spoiling, because we get ...This is the best kind of spoiling, because we get to enjoy the cuddliness and they feel secure and loved. I'm sure at some point, the need to get other stuff done will prevail, but until then, why wouldn't you enjoy every second with him that you can?! That's why people have kids, to love them and be loved by them :)<BR/><BR/>PS How much are the grandmas loving that you are back in school and they get to see him so much?! My mom is in heaven!LEOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03081911312259246237noreply@blogger.com